Predictions

This post is for mommies out there.   When I was pregnant with my first child, I felt this incredibly strong connection.  He was my little miracle and I would literally spend hour of my day talking to him through my belly, in hopes of bonding with him, which I felt I did.  I felt like even before he was born I knew his personality and could predict the type of person he would be.  I hate to admit it, but I don’t remember a lot of my predictions and sadly, I haven’t invested the same amount of “bonding time” with this new baby the same way I did with him.  As silly as it sounds, I feel as if I don’t know her as well since my mind and my focus have been on my son and my husband as of late.  Although I feel as if I don’t know her as well, I don’t think that means I can’t receive inspiration as to whom and what she can become.  So this post is me taking a quiet moment to think about this beautiful girl I have growing in me and come up with some of the characteristics and attributes I feel she might posses as she takes on the world.

I think she is going to be very stubborn, just like her mom and brother.  I think she will have a more fiery temperament and easier to anger than her brother was, but that just means she will have a lot of spirit.  I think she will be a passionate individual and high energy like her brother.  I think she will be the type of individual who has to learn everything for herself, even if that means leaning every lesson the hard way.  I think she will be very contemplative and even aggressive as she interacts with the world around her. I think she will be very sweet, and understand how to communicate and interact with people, but would prefer time on her own.

Of course I could be very off on any number of these predictions and some may fit her in childhood while others may be learned in adulthood.  I would love to hear from you though.  Did you ever feel you could predict who and what your children would be before they exited your womb?