Since Josh and I moved here all our stuff was put in storage. I have been having a hard time getting the money Josh owes me and recently found out he was late on the storage payment. This greatly upset me as half of that stuff is mine too and I would hate to lose things that are important to me, like pictures of the kids. So after making sure the unit was paid, I made sure to start the huge project of splitting our possessions. As I am living with my parents and probably will be for a long time, I have very little need for most of the stuff. I thought about getting the few things I want and just being done with it, giving the rest to Josh, but the mortal, selfish side of me cringes and is sick at the thought of him and his mistress using some of the things that were special or important to me, that I no longer have use for. So I am now in a mad dash to try and sell what I can in hopes of helping someone else out as well as supplementing what Josh does pay me in hopes of getting what is owed to me. I am soooo overwhelmed, but at the same time, feel this is something I should be doing.
I did however, finally get my Colorado drivers license so officially all I need to do is get the paperwork notarized and I can file (I even have a friend who is willing to serve Josh). After I file (which I will do after my appointment with the plastic surgeon) I have several more forms I need to get in order, but it will start the process that Colorado requires to take at least 90 days). Tomorrow is my last dentist appointment, I have the appointment with the plastic surgeon on the 30th and need to make an eye appointment and then I should be good to lose insurance when the divorce is finalized. I also have a friend who has offered to help me with the whole Medicaid process, so everywhere I turn, I have people in my corner and that has really helped with the scariness of it all. SO much left to do, but the ball is rolling.
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